What the Slow Season Taught Me
As spring opens up and wedding season begins to bloom again, I’ve been reflecting on the quiet months—what it taught me, what it took from me, and what I want to carry into this new season as a photographer, storyteller, and human.
What the Slow Season Taught Me
That slowness has lessons of its own.
I was photographing weddings nearly every weekend from mid-September to mid-November. My body felt it—especially in November. I was pushing to deliver galleries before the holiday rush, and while I met my deadlines, I missed out on some of my own rituals, like wrapping presents or decorating the house. Being present for others, took a toll on feeling present for my own.
I learned the importance of building in intentional recovery time.
I gifted myself at least a week after peak wedding season before I began editing. It was a chance to move my body, photosynthesize, rest, and return to the work with a clearer eye—and care. It reminded me that taking care of my body allows me to show up better. The slow pace allows us to reflect and recharge. All important in a creative field and a business.
The world doesn’t pause for business.
As an immigrant and someone deeply connected to human rights and social justice, I felt the weight of this past season. With election news and attacks on marginalized communities, I found myself asking: How does this work reflect my values? How do I make sure I don’t lose my integrity?
At its heart, my job is to represent love. And that mission feels more urgent—and more sacred—than ever. Setting time for creative projects that reflect my values, such as Rebel Hearts. A community centered content event for photographers built to honor and celebrate queer love stories. A reminder that the world constantly defies identities, but we get to choose when we stop celebrating them.
What I'm Carrying Into This Season
More aligned client care. From onboarding guides to thoughtful vendor recs and a cleaner CRM workflow, I’m building in more intention and fewer hoops. Less friction, more connection.
More space for storytelling and rest. I’m making room for creative projects that align with my values, and carving out space to be present—for myself and my couples. I want to help you savor your wedding day, not rush through it.
Clearer boundaries = deeper service. My editing windows, communication flow, and delivery timelines have all been updated to make sure I can show up with gentle energy and clarity when it matters most.
Gentle Reminders for Fellow Photographers
You’re human. You are not a machine. You wear so many hats—photographer, editor, marketer, bookkeeper—and sometimes you need a pause.
We photograph people, not portfolios. Your clients are navigating life in real time—just like you. Show up with presence, not pressure.
Community is a form of accountability. We have the power to build spaces that reflect care, safety, and joy. Let’s hold each other to that standard.
This year also began with a quiet gift—a trip to Puerto Rico with my family. It was a gentle reminder to savor presence with my people and reflect on how I want this year to feel, both personally and creatively..
